I have a friend. His sister was doing her post graduation while she
fell in love with a class-mate. They claimed their love is eternal,
spiritual (and they use some newly-coined heavy words to describe their
love) and finally they decided to marry.
One day
the boy backed out reasoning that his parents are not willing for the
marriage. The girl’s life turned to be a hell – she became very
traumatized and highly depressed. Her brother, my friend, came to me for
help.
He knew that boy’s parents had some past obligation
towards me. So he thought, I would be able to persuade the boy’s parents
into marriage. I talked to the boy’s parents. “Sir, we didn’t know
about his love affair with that girl. We would have been really happy if
he gets that girl. We know hers’ is a very reputed family…” said his
parents. <!--more-->
This was a shock to me. Then, why
did the boy put the blame on his parents? I called him to my place and
had a brief talk with him. He appeared very sober and normal.
His
reaction: “Yeah I loved her. I trulyloved her. She came to the hotel
room and we had nice time together. But this clearly shows her attitude.
She has hot pants or such tendency – so how can I marry her? We can
have fun with such girls – but marriage? NO. It is a serious thing in
life…”
“But, what about her life?” I
asked him, “She also has a life, right? Why did she come to the hotel
room? Because she she loved you and trusted you. Are you not ashamed to
cheat her this way? You don’t have a sister, that’s why you don’t
realize the pain…” I said angrily.
The boy was very cool and
sober. He asked me: “Sir, you are telling absolute truth. Didn’t she
cheat her parents and her social morality? And you mean to say, I am the
only person who enjoyed those times? And she didn’t? We have equal
responsibility for what has happened. And now, I cannot trust her. I
wish her good luck.” Then he warned me: “If you people use your power to
forcefully make me marry to her, both of our life would be like hell.
Do you want to destroy my life too?” ..............................Click here to read full article: http://udaypai.in/?p=66
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